The Best Sexual Positions: The Top 5 Mistakes Most Guys Make
One of the many challenges that men have is to decide which positions to use to obtain the loot. The biggest fears are that the woman gets bored with the "same old man, the same old man" and as a result loses interest in sex. So the question is: What are the best sexual positions?
The best way to explain this is to talk about what NOT to do. With this in mind, I will now talk about the five most important mistakes that boys make when it comes to sexual positions, so do not keep doing them.
Position 1 error: Imitate anything that is seen in a porn movie. This is probably the most important reason why boys fail in their sexual positions. The inexperienced guys think that porn is a good model because they see the stallions beating the beautiful beasts, and … well, they just do not know any better. The problem is that the sexual positions in those types of films are intended to show a good scene for the spectators, not to maximize the pleasure for the actors.
And in fact, one of the worst positions for clitoral and vaginal stimulation is when the woman puts her ankles on your shoulders. With your pelvis bent back, you may feel pain in your cervix if it gets too close. In addition, it is a position that exerts pressure. (If you ever have the chance to go behind the scenes and see the making of an adult movie, you'll see how quickly the mood dies when the actress has to stop the bathroom scene)
Position 2 error: Try too much to keep the weight off of the woman, in any position. For a woman, sex is a way of approaching her man. She loves it when he leans on the lower part of her thighs. So here is some advice for you to try … The next time you're having sex with your wife (while you're having real sex), put more weight on her. You see, during sex, almost all women enjoy feeling their man's body pressed hard against her.
So, how much weight should I put on it? Make it enough so that after he comes, and the sexual frenzy dissipates, his wife will tell you that he feels they are softening it. Of course, do this within limits! If you are on top of her grinding her pubic bone for a long time, you may feel pain for her.
But the conclusion is that many, many women like to be pressured by at least part of a man's weight. So save chivalrous sex for the women of the royal family!
Position 3 error: Allow the woman to do all the work when she is up. For practically all women, sex is primarily a passive activity. So being the immobile beta male, you destroy the whole purpose of sex for her, which is to open up to you by penetrating her body.
Position 4 error: being a coward. Many guys have read too many "Men are from Mars" books and think that women like it if you ask for permission for everything and let them take the lead. Be the alpha male instead and just "do it". Turn it around, move it here and there. Be aggressive and even carry her like a rag doll when you want to change position, and … she will LOVE! And do not worry about it. If something is happening that the woman does not like, she will let you know.
Position error 5: Think that the most difficult positions are better. You do not need to be face down, hanging from a lamp and doing something crazy. Just be normal. An old resource like the missionary (the man at the top, the woman lying on his back) may be the best sexual position.
Difficult postures are frustrating for all and many times they kill the mood because there is too much "where should I put my arm?" … and not enough "let's have fun exploring".